Meeting a person for the first time and having an immediate, "That's my new crush!" feeling is one thing, but meeting a person in real life and then having zero chemistry is another. "Great first date" might not even begin to describe it: You're traveling together at the time of date, the person doesn't have much to say, or even worse, you have nothing in common.

No one wants to work themselves up about a first date, but a one-night stand should have one thing in common: you. You must be an active participant in the conversation. An important part of this is asking questions. What are some of the things you're passionate about? What are some of the things you hope your future partner will be passionate about?

You don't have to be too direct about your interests; people love to share their passions, and it makes them feel more special. It also gives you a way to learn more about the person without pressuring them to open up. It's important to be honest about your interests, and even if they don't live up to what you hoped, you might be able to strike up a new conversation later.

The Rules of Dating

Well, you can only do so much for the first date. While you can't be all things to all people—you can't make someone feel like your best friend on a first date—there are some rules of good etiquette that will help you get through the rest of your first date.

Ask for a second date. Don't say, "Wait, I want to see you again." Instead say something like, "I really enjoyed hanging out with you, but I have to make sure that we're compatible for the future. I know you're looking for someone but I have to do some research. I hope you understand."

Dating Sites

If you aren't necessarily looking for love or a serious relationship, these online dating sites can help you in your quest.

Match

The Match app has almost 25 million members and is one of the largest dating apps. It has proven to be incredibly popular, so it's no surprise that its headquarters is in New York City. However, for the more adventurous, there are also other cities you can match, like London, Sydney, and Toronto. The app uses both GPS and location-based services to find suitable dates; you also have a chance to message other users